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Transparency as a Blogger

When I first decided to take up blogging in high school (remember the good old Xanga days?), I usually never hesitated to write out my thoughts, feelings, or opinions. I spoke freely to the world as if they were a part of my life and knew almost everything about me. In a sense, they did, because I went to school with them. There was little consequence then because I would soon move away for college, and other high schoolers were blogging about similar topics.

Photo credit: Lindsey O’Nele

When I decided to take up blogging seriously, again, I was thinking more about what kind of content I wanted, how I wanted to brand myself as a blogger, and how I wanted my initial design of my blog to reflect me. In the back of my mind, I knew I needed to eventually consider how transparent I wanted to be with my followers, but I wasn’t ready to address it just yet. With my career being in law (for now), the sad and unfortunate truth is that many will judge you and hold you to a higher standard. Topics that you tackle must be done so tastefully and professionally. So, my captions and the one other blog post I have so far, while genuinely authentic, allow you to only scratch the surface of who I am and what my thoughts are on certain things.

Why is this such a big thing to consider? It seems whether there’s a popular travel, lifestyle, wedding, photographer, or fashion blogger, they all allow you into intimate aspects of their lives. I’m just not comfortable with that yet. I wholeheartedly believe that when you begin a public blogging journey, you bring in all those around you—friends and family. So how you choose certain topics for your blogs and present written or photo content can bring judgment on you and loved ones. (It’s much easier—for me at least—to ignore judgment from strangers.)  Another thing is that it’s also not just judgment I’m afraid of but I just naturally tend to shy away from all things public eye. I have never liked being at the center of attention, but deciding to pursue this passion places me in such a situation. Perhaps this will be one of the biggest obstacles for me to overcome as a blogger, and I’ll have to figure out how to let my readers in another way… but for now, I’m still navigating. And that’s okay with me.

 

Exciting News!

Hi all!

The last few months have been such a whirlwind! As you know, I finished the bar and immediately jumped into finding new law jobs and pouring myself into this lifestyle and fashion blogging! Unfortunately, I had no idea what I was getting myself into; I needed to finish wedding planning, I needed to invest time into becoming a strong and independent working woman, and I needed to really figure out how I wanted to brand my website and make it more professional–both layout and photography! (Definitely way over my head…) It’s going to be a serious investment over the upcoming year, so I can’t wait for you all to see the site come to life over the next year and get a huge revamp.

Now that my own wedding is over and I am back from my honeymoon, I thought I’d take the time to let you know what I really want my blog to be about. To do that, I think you all need to know who I really am and what I’m all about in my life.

Who is Margaret Rigney?

I just turned 28 back in June and recently graduated law school in April 2016. On October 22, 2016, I married my high school sweetheart after knowing him for 10 years and dating for nine! Together, we own a 4 year old maltese, we have traveled to Europe and Asia and just recently to the Maldives for our honeymoon! That’s just the surface of who I am today. Who am I really and who do I want to be?

I have always been a believer in kindness, generosity, patience, honesty, and compassion. That is who I strive to be every day and that is what I hope to bring in whatever I do in life.  That being said, I want to take the chance to segue into what my blog will be about and how you and I will get to know each other better!

What is this fashion and lifestyle blog about? What’s different?

For this site, it will primarily be about: travel; fashion; home decor; beauty; and home. But as a young woman, I want this lifestyle and fashion blog to really address lifestyle in the sense of where we stand in the world today: what are the thoughts we have growing up, how we feel in society, how we deal with others in the workplace, how we pursue our dreams, how we address our doubts, and much more.

All the blogs I have come across are glitz and glamour, and it’s such a glimmer of hope for us guys and gals; we all hope to one day be just like them! But I hope to bring a more realistic touch from time to time. Not all of us are able to live the lavish lifestyle jetsetting off to and fro every week to New York or Europe and wearing Georges Shobeika like it’s no big deal. I want to incorporate a realistic lifestyle and fashion for the younger generation who are still working to pursue their dreams. I want to address thoughts and difficulties that I have come across in my life and hear your perspectives, as well! This is a place for support– for both boys and girls (men and women)– as much as it is a place for ideas and inspiration!

Ultimately, I really hope this site grows to be interactive. 

Until then my darlings! Thanks for sticking through this long post!

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travel leisure lifestyle blogger blogging fashion adventure runwaywithrigney maldives honeymoon beauty home decor runway Margaret Ng Margaret Rigney San Diego California